Thursday, January 1, 2015

New Year's Day

First day of 2016.

Goals for the year. Not Resolutions, just goals.

1. Spend more time with family.
2. Set aside money sufficient for our needs if we are out of work.
3. Attend to health, both medical and dental. 
4. Crochet more.. complete projects not partial calamities.
5. Be more responsible with our money.
6. Learn a more complete selection of words in Spanish.
7. Take more pictures. 
8. Laugh more.
9. Tell people that matter to me that they matter to me.
10. Exercise more.
11.Quit smoking.
12. Lose weight.
13. Smile.

ONE

So here goes with the epic first post. I have considered what to write and then reconsidered. With a title like Not my circus, Not my monkeys, one would wonder what kind of blog this might be. Well here goes..

I was told today that one of my bosses likes me... I am not sure why. I am not overly kind to him. I don't hang on his every word and I am not often kind when it comes to this particular individual. I asked him why he liked me, because I did not understand. He replied, 'because you are honest and honesty has become very undervalued.' He is right, honesty has become a very rare commodity. You will find it here. That and MY opinion. Hope that helps to understand that I am VERY opinionated. 


I am a mother of 4 by birth and 6 from a very blended family and a grandmother to 6 wonderful little ones... I have 2 girls and 4 boys. They are all loved something fiercely and their parents are quite aware of it. I believe that a grandparent's job is to spoil their grandchildren, pump them up on candy and sunshine and then send them home to their parents. A kind of retribution for all of the death and destruction that the kids delivered to you while you were trying to raise them properly. 

I married my high school sweetheart 25 years after he asked me. Our life since has been nothing short of a very grand adventure, some good, some not so much. An adventure all the same, I have loved almost every minute of it. 

I think he came along when I needed him most, or he needed me most, we are not sure which. I just know for a fact that without him, I would be lost, or dead, or married to someone 20 years my junior. Not a bad thing for some people, but a real problem for me personally.  

I am just glad that I survived the beginning of my life to make it to the next part of our grand adventure.